Family

A principal taxonomic category that ranks above genus and below order usually ending in – idae

Family are the first people we know in our lives .But not all family members like you or love you some are just pretending to love you whilst they are having bad wishes for you . Unfortunately some of their bad wishes come true .

Family should be there in good and bad times but now it’s no longer like that. Take it from me , they are family members that I really loved but they never showed they love for me.

But be greatful to have your family behind you because some people don’t have family

#family matters #

All we need is protection is that too much to ask for ?

It really breaks my heart knowing that as a woman am not safe and with the look of things we will never be safe .

I know sometimes as women we can be hard to understand but all we need is love and protection .I wonder how some men sleep at night knowing that you have taken a soul away ….how do you feel as a men when you hear that a woman has been raped and killed .

Women give birth to babies and they love them ,take care of them till their last breath ,but why don’t you protect us . We now live in fear. You guys should be our brothers and fathers but still you want to harm us. When will we ever get peace . Honestly enough is enough .

I know that not all men are animals and I know they care . And thank you for caring about us and for trying to protects us . We appreciate that keep on with the good work .

As women let’s stand together and try to protect each other enough is enough 😡

# Enough is Enough

Being a woman

i respect all women out there

They fought for our rights…..today as young women we are able to go to school cause of the women who fought for us in 1909 …..

Honestly as the generation of today i don’t think we were going to be able to go through what they went through

Imagine being denied to go to school because you have to get ready to be someone’s wife …. Imagine not being allowed to be independent because you will be disrespectful ….

Okay don’t get me wrong but the law back then was on the side of men , God knows why ? Honestly it wasn’t fair

Sometimes i just feel like as women we haven’t really gotten our justice

Reasons

  • Women get raped daily
  • Some get abused
  • Some are still forced to get married ( arranged marriages)
  • Some are called bad drivers because they women
  • Some are still forced not to work because they have to take care of the kids, house actually everything etc.

Something i have noticed as women we have turned to not like each other because we turn to judge each other on our looks and etc

Why can’t we be like the women who fought for us to be equal with men let’s unite and stand together don’t let any woman suffer let’s love each other

Happy women’s month

THANK YOU FOR READING MY BLOG ❤

10 things that people don’t know about Thaby 😉

Hey Everyone sorry I haven’t posted in a whole , it’s just that am quite busy these days🤗

1. Alot of people know me as the bubbly ,sweet and loud Thaby but I also have a serious side that no one would really like because I get really serious😁

2. I have had 3 accidents in my life the first one I was 5 years old (I was bumped by a car but I never really got that hurt)

– Second one I was 8 years old (I was bumped a bicycle 😂, trust me a bicycle can bump a person )

– Third one I was 10 years old (I got bumped by a car 💔 , that accident ruined my life it was really serious and I never wish that to happened to anyone cause the pain is just too much😑

3. Am really afraid of heights ( But I like acting tough but heights really scare me😂,they just freak me out )

4. Since from the beginning of the year 2019 I couldn’t walk ( But am a savior I can walk now, it took me 6 months for me to walk)

5. I don’t get offended easy( only if I am in bad mood or something)

6. I do make friends easily but it’s more easier for me to unfriend someone but it is hard 😑

7. My crying moments are more than my laughing moments😪

8. I love unconditionally to the point where I Hurt myself🙄

9.Am a very good lie 😂😉

10. Last but not least I am very bad in sports 😪😂Thank you for reading my blog ❤️

Ekasi lam(My Neighborhood)

Am sure you now have an idea of how it is in the ghetto .Am a chick (girl) from the ghetto,I grew up here I love being here,but things we face here ekasi they hard . If you stay at the suburb and you think you have seen it all then trust me you Wrong.Here ekasi (ghetto) we have alot of drama

shame .Hayi …..guys the ghetto can be hard at times. You know now I don’t get scared whenever I hear a gunshot , I now find it very normal because it happens every now and then . Speaking of gun shots ,crime here is just something else but it depends on which part of the hood you at ,its not really that bad it just depends .And it really pains me seeing some of the teens my age using drugs.Ekasi the most famous drug is Whoonga . Whoonga is really bad I have lost some people that I really loved and cared for because of this drug. I know some might be wondering what Whoonga is ,let me give you some information I know about Whoonga

Whoonga (also known as Nyaope or wunga ) is a street drug that has allegedly come into widespread use in South Africa since 2010,mostly in impoverished townships of Durban , although it is claimed to be appearing in other places in South Africa as well (Google).In my own understanding I feel like there is a huge out Break of the drug in Guateng but I guess that’s how it is in all the provinces in South Africa

What is used to make Whoonga?Nyaope is a fine powder that is usually combined with marijuana(dagga or weed) and smoked ,it can also be snorted or injected . Nyaope’s main ingredients is Herion. It’s not always clear what all of the ingredients of Nyaope are the ingredients of Nyaope may vary place to place .

What does Whoonga do to body?Whoonga is highly addictive and a user can become addicted even after only using it once . So the user can get severe body pains ,which include bad headaches , stomach pains and muscle spasms. So obviously it will lead the user to use more of it so that it relieves the pain.I guess after reading this you will get an idea if this drug . So like any other place the ghetto has its own advantages and disadvantages. Just like any other place. Apart from the bad things that happen I still love the ghetto it’s my home and home is where the heart is and my heart is at the ghetto😉These are some of the pictures of WhoongaThank you for logging ….

The ghetto

Ghetto-A part of a city , especially a slum area,occupied by minority group or groups.(Google)

Ghettos are often known for being more impoverished than other areas of the city

You know the life in the ghetto is the best. We got our own way of doing things. Being in the ghetto is the best. Our lifes here in the ghetto are good ,the rent in the ghetto is not that expensive,even buying a house in the township(ghetto) it’s not that costing. We live an affordable life,everyone just fits in no one is really left out . I love my life in the ghetto everyone has everyone’s back ,we help each other if it’s necessary

As they say(you can take a person out of the ghetto but you can never take the ghetto out of a person) which is true . I love my life here,my friends are close to me and some of my family too. Don’t get me wrong it’s also good being in the suburb but being in the ghetto is a unique feeling.

My favorite part of being in the ghetto is the food. Our food here is the best ,we proud of who we are and we love our food. Food plays a big role in our lifes in the township(ghetto). We have a lot of different kinds of food examples :Kota(bunny chow),Mogudo,chicken feet,chicken gizzards or head and also inhloko(sheep head or cow it Really depends) last but not least braaied meat

We also love music but that’s a story for another day ….😊

Here are some of the meals we have

So guys do you think the ghetto is a great place to be ??

#The ghetto#

Introduction

Firstly I would like to welcome everyone reading my blog am so excited to start with this blog it’s my first time doing this so may you please bare with me

Oh sorry before I forget my Name is Thabiso Rose Ndlovu but most of the time people call me Thaby. Am a female , I know some of you might be wondering why I have a name of a male whilst I’m a female but I guess that question should be answered by my parents because I also don’t know .Am a teen-ager , Some people believe that when a child reaches the teenage stage they become handful but I believe that us teen-agers we got our own way of thinking .And yes am still at school ,I am really enjoying my high school years hey people it’s fun trust me being in high school is challenging but trust me it’s the best years a person could ever have.

I guess you will find out more about me when you follow my blog

#Rose#

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